The Pitt’s Supriya Ganesh: My Strange Dysphoria: Growing up in India, I never questioned my gender. When I moved to the U.S. at 18, I began to feel disconnected from my body.

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I’m sure Reddit will be very normal about this

This article is so good and I resonated with it so much, as a Southern white girl.

>I still felt like a woman, but I didn’t always feel comfortable performing womanhood in the way the West had deemed appropriate.

I grew up traditionally very pretty (Ganesh is absolutely beautiful) but I couldn’t conform to all this, and it led to a lot of rejection over time, from both other women and from men. Even within my own family. I think less attractive people are not pressured to the same extent.

It’s always made me sad to realize how differently I’m treated when I dress and present a specific way. I’m even treated as more intelligent if I do the dog and pony show. It feels so empty and shallow, and I can’t respect people who require it.

As a person of Indian origin – it is absolutely laughable to point fingers at the West in this way. She did not question gender in India because Indian society is far more prescriptive.

I enjoyed reading this, it’s interesting hearing about a different perspective. I think a lot of us experience similar feelings of disconnect when it comes to traditional femininity/masculinity, but there’s another layer when you originally come from a different cultural or ethnic background.