Halle Berry talks about faking orgasms when she was younger to make his partnersfeel better about themselves: “Everybody has faked it because you just want it to be done. You just want the pounding to stop. And then you take your vibrator to the bathroom and handle it yourself”
by Terrible_Cycle_5983
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Nah, I just always told men to their face they didn’t make me cum. I am not protecting your ego. And if they don’t get their shit together and get me off, then we don’t fuck again.
She is 100% correct
To all the men I loved in my early 20s:
(No she’s not)
Yep and if you tell them you didn’t come, they act like something is wrong with you.
if i’d had to guess i wouldn’t have said my sex life was better than halle berry’s but here we are. /hj
i’m not lying when i say i never faked it because i just wanted it to be done. i guess that’s because i always believed in her final statement: it should be enjoyable for all involved.
i don’t love a blanket statement, we haven’t all had the same experiences, but i am glad she’s encouraging women to speak up for their preferences.
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I wish it was easier to fake as a guy tbh. Been a few times I just not enjoying/want it to be done but no idea how to fake cum lol
Communication in the bedroom isn’t difficult
People need to learn to say what they want; don’t be bossy about it, just a little guidance … ain’t no mind readers here
Now, no, when I was younger this was the norm.
Men need to understand that the women in 🌽 are performing and that it is not reality.
I feel like faking orgasms is an older lady thing of the past. That would genuinely never cross my mind to do unless I had an ulterior motive lol
This is just depressing
Yes, I’ve struggled to find a guy actually willing to listen to what I ask for in bed.
I’ve had three boyfriends I was intimate with. The first was sweet, we were young and actually never had sex bc he respected boundaries i had at the time.
My other two boyfriends gave mouth service that they would “give me” more foreplay and be gentle but then it always devolved into sex rougher than I enjoyed. I felt like I was a side character in a play centered around them and their obsession with “dominance” and “masculinity” and “big dick”. Dirty talk felt disrespectful. Instead of sweet nothings “let me clap you” “I bet you can’t handle how big I am.” The crazy part was the big dick obsession, they were not particularly well endowed.
I only was intimate with either a couple of times at most, they blamed me and spiraled when I said I didn’t get off. “None of my other girlfriends ever had that problem!” “I’m just too big and you can’t handle it!”
Hoping to find another guy like my first bf lol. I’m beautiful, smart, and funny but get no action bc I bail at the first sign of the above dynamic, which is super common.
This is why queer sex, and sex in general that is about more than male orgasm and PiV above all else, is transformative.
At least you CAME to your senses.