She’s not wrong but is clearly not doing well and lashing out at the wrong person for it.
gribble29 on
So, did their agent say this is why she was fired? I think it’s WILD people are being fired for demanding basic empathy and care for other people.
Free Palestine 🇵🇸
cranberrylimeade420 on
maybe i’m misreading this but this sounds more like a complaint about her agent/the industry than a complaint against anything Mark Ruffalo did
> I DMdyou about this months ago but you ignored me.
I assume most celebrities’ DMs go ignored, or if not, they get so many messages that it’s easy for a legit message to slip thru the cracks
yayannabelle on
Uhhhhhhhhhh. Some good points, very badly made; I hope she gets the help and support she needs.
Appropriate-Top-8963 on
YIKES. I would wager he never saw her DM, claiming he ignored her is pretty wild to me. That is not Mark Ruffalo’s style at all.
Different_Prior_517 on
Lately Kate Beckinsale has been posting a lot of these stream of consciousness posts. The one about Michael Sheen and now this, her points would be better made with a more concise statement.
If she really was fired by her agent for liking a post about human rights and it’s the same agent as Ruffalo then that really is messed up.
But Mark’s under no obligation to reply to her DMs and putting him on blast like this seems like the wrong move.
very-pink-iceberg on
While the focus on celebrity’s employability for speaking out in support of Palestine is not the point, and the focus should remain 100% on the Palestinian lives lost, she is not wrong. It’s a pretty clear double standard.
Weak_Heart2000 on
Wait, is she commenting this on Mark Ruffalo’s post?
AbsentThatDay2 on
Seems like misplaced anger.
JustHereForCatss on

quanate on
Oh no
Leading-Panic7061 on
damn last line got messy
AdhesivenessFar5588 on
This is genuinely so confusing. She’s mad at him for not getting fired? Or is she mad at him for not responding to a DM? He must get thousands of DM’s a day, and most likely doesn’t even manage his own socials.
Like, I do understand that there is definitely a lot of misogyny and double standards going on here, but I don’t really see how it factors into being his fault. I really feel for her, and what she’s clearly been going through, but I’m at a loss here.
CrescentDarling on
Good for her for speaking up.
Chlorophyllmatic on
To be a bit charitable to Ruffalo re: that end remark, I would also ignore a DM from Becksinsale based on just about everything I’ve ever seen relating to her — both outside of this situation and the way she’s lashing out at him here for things totally out of his control
thecuriousostrich on
Her comments here seem entirely justified but, without any further context than this post, it seems a bit odd for her to be coming at *him* for this (instead of her agent) as if her unfair treatment by her agent is somehow his fault. Everything she’s saying about being female in Hollywood is true but that’s not really Mark Ruffalo’s fault, no?
InterwebHero20 on
I’m not saying she’s wrong in general and this is an ungenerous take but there might be other reasons an agent would drop Kate Beckinsale recently
mandatory_french_guy on
All valid but girl you GOTTA know someone who’s got his number I really dont think Ruffalo is really checking his DMs.
Anyway agency is UTA who conveniently doesn’t list their actors on their website, but they did drop Bob Vylan not so long ago
[Edit: Also look, at some point you also gotta recognize that outside of the penis thing, Ruffalo is an avenger and the highest profile thing Beckinsale did in the past 10 years is the 5th movie in the Underworld franchise…”
Known-Watercress-953 on
Though I agree with what she’s sayin, she is definitely going about it the wrong way. Especially because he probably doesn’t look at his DMs at all and it’s so easy not to see a message, especially if they get hundreds a day. I genuinely doubt that he saw her dm and then just ignored it.
ItsDarwinMan82 on
I have no doubt Hollywood is misogynistic, but do we really know that this was the reason she was dropped by her agent? There could be a lot more to this than liking a post.
raiinydaay on
This is very sad. While it’s absolutely true that women are put on a pedestal and men have more power in Hollywood, this frustration seems oddly misplaced. Seems strange to comment this on his account. Knowing Ruffalo’s history, I’m sure he didn’t purposefully ignore her DMs. I hope she can get some help, she’s had a difficult past few years ❤️
bestied00d on
I don’t think I have enough context.
WalterTheCatFurever on
I just visited her Instagram for the first time and it is very clear she is in a prolonged mental health crisis that has many layers to it. Perhaps her reps could have helped facilitate treatment before dropping her. But it’s a cruel and soulless business – which in itself has major hand in her present state.
BurrSir01 on
I always respond to DM from “Kate Beckinsale” although “she” usually asked for some sort of gift card exchange.
Moldyfrenchtoast on
She appears to be going through a lot right now. I hope she get off of social media, and find support with family and friends in real life.
Taodaching on
She made a mistake. Because she’s human. And is clearly in a very difficult situation.. I hope she gets industry support. And when she’s better, I hope she sues for unfair dismissal. Or whatever you do with an agent.
michilypuff on
Daaaamn he’s are bars on bars but I’d be tagging and naming the agent rather than Ruffalo tbh
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She’s not wrong but is clearly not doing well and lashing out at the wrong person for it.
So, did their agent say this is why she was fired? I think it’s WILD people are being fired for demanding basic empathy and care for other people.
Free Palestine 🇵🇸
maybe i’m misreading this but this sounds more like a complaint about her agent/the industry than a complaint against anything Mark Ruffalo did
> I DMdyou about this months ago but you ignored me.
I assume most celebrities’ DMs go ignored, or if not, they get so many messages that it’s easy for a legit message to slip thru the cracks
Uhhhhhhhhhh. Some good points, very badly made; I hope she gets the help and support she needs.
YIKES. I would wager he never saw her DM, claiming he ignored her is pretty wild to me. That is not Mark Ruffalo’s style at all.
Lately Kate Beckinsale has been posting a lot of these stream of consciousness posts. The one about Michael Sheen and now this, her points would be better made with a more concise statement.
If she really was fired by her agent for liking a post about human rights and it’s the same agent as Ruffalo then that really is messed up.
But Mark’s under no obligation to reply to her DMs and putting him on blast like this seems like the wrong move.
While the focus on celebrity’s employability for speaking out in support of Palestine is not the point, and the focus should remain 100% on the Palestinian lives lost, she is not wrong. It’s a pretty clear double standard.
Wait, is she commenting this on Mark Ruffalo’s post?
Seems like misplaced anger.

Oh no
damn last line got messy
This is genuinely so confusing. She’s mad at him for not getting fired? Or is she mad at him for not responding to a DM? He must get thousands of DM’s a day, and most likely doesn’t even manage his own socials.
Like, I do understand that there is definitely a lot of misogyny and double standards going on here, but I don’t really see how it factors into being his fault. I really feel for her, and what she’s clearly been going through, but I’m at a loss here.
Good for her for speaking up.
To be a bit charitable to Ruffalo re: that end remark, I would also ignore a DM from Becksinsale based on just about everything I’ve ever seen relating to her — both outside of this situation and the way she’s lashing out at him here for things totally out of his control
Her comments here seem entirely justified but, without any further context than this post, it seems a bit odd for her to be coming at *him* for this (instead of her agent) as if her unfair treatment by her agent is somehow his fault. Everything she’s saying about being female in Hollywood is true but that’s not really Mark Ruffalo’s fault, no?
I’m not saying she’s wrong in general and this is an ungenerous take but there might be other reasons an agent would drop Kate Beckinsale recently
All valid but girl you GOTTA know someone who’s got his number I really dont think Ruffalo is really checking his DMs.
Anyway agency is UTA who conveniently doesn’t list their actors on their website, but they did drop Bob Vylan not so long ago
[Edit: Also look, at some point you also gotta recognize that outside of the penis thing, Ruffalo is an avenger and the highest profile thing Beckinsale did in the past 10 years is the 5th movie in the Underworld franchise…”
Though I agree with what she’s sayin, she is definitely going about it the wrong way. Especially because he probably doesn’t look at his DMs at all and it’s so easy not to see a message, especially if they get hundreds a day. I genuinely doubt that he saw her dm and then just ignored it.
I have no doubt Hollywood is misogynistic, but do we really know that this was the reason she was dropped by her agent? There could be a lot more to this than liking a post.
This is very sad. While it’s absolutely true that women are put on a pedestal and men have more power in Hollywood, this frustration seems oddly misplaced. Seems strange to comment this on his account. Knowing Ruffalo’s history, I’m sure he didn’t purposefully ignore her DMs. I hope she can get some help, she’s had a difficult past few years ❤️
I don’t think I have enough context.
I just visited her Instagram for the first time and it is very clear she is in a prolonged mental health crisis that has many layers to it. Perhaps her reps could have helped facilitate treatment before dropping her. But it’s a cruel and soulless business – which in itself has major hand in her present state.
I always respond to DM from “Kate Beckinsale” although “she” usually asked for some sort of gift card exchange.
She appears to be going through a lot right now. I hope she get off of social media, and find support with family and friends in real life.
She made a mistake. Because she’s human. And is clearly in a very difficult situation.. I hope she gets industry support. And when she’s better, I hope she sues for unfair dismissal. Or whatever you do with an agent.
Daaaamn he’s are bars on bars but I’d be tagging and naming the agent rather than Ruffalo tbh