Harry Styles about Liam Payne’s death: “I think there was a period when he passed away were I really struggled with acknowledging how strange it is to have people own part of your grief”
Harry Styles about Liam Payne’s death: “I think there was a period when he passed away were I really struggled with acknowledging how strange it is to have people own part of your grief”
I’m not sure why the sound isn’t synchronised correctly…. it’s fine in the original video
harry-styles-7644 on
Must be so hard to deal with that level of pressure while grieving 💔
cavalier731 on
What does that mean? “People own part of your grief.”
Affectionate-Fill713 on
It’s so hard – especially when they werent friends and hadnt spoken in years and there was so much pressure from 1D fans for him to “perform” grief.
Different_Prior_517 on
The criticism these guys got for not grieving in the way a lot of the public wanted them to was awful.
People were comparing their posts after he died and measuring them against each other and whose was the most meaningful.
If they weren’t publicly grieving properly people were saying they never cared about Liam.
It was really bizarre.
1ndieroller on
this makes me wanna cry
bravobravo17 on
As someone who lost their mom suddenly this past year, I can not even fathom the idea of people telling me I’m grieving wrong or telling me how they think I should be acting or what I should be saying. I feel for all of them and navigating their own grief in such a public way.
lynnemagic on
😔 this breaks my heart.
computer7blue on
**Just because someone doesn’t tell you something doesn’t mean they didn’t do it or feel it.**
This applies to celebrities, too, about their personal lives, current events and politics. Yes, your entitlement and cruel words hurts them. Yes, they are sensitive people like artists are. No, you should not need them to say something in order for you to decide how you feel about something. Think for yourself. Mind your own business and let people mind theirs.
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Oh yeah, i certainly felt that. i remember when Keanu was constantly hammered about his reaction to River’s death back then. In fact, even now, so many years later… he is always grieving his best friend’s death but there’s a certain expectation of how he should present that grief to the tabloids… So i feel Harry’s situation here. Must be very difficult to deal with. ETA: It should NEVER be the place of said tabloids and gen pop to dictate how a celebrity grieves.
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I’m not sure why the sound isn’t synchronised correctly…. it’s fine in the original video
Must be so hard to deal with that level of pressure while grieving 💔
What does that mean? “People own part of your grief.”
It’s so hard – especially when they werent friends and hadnt spoken in years and there was so much pressure from 1D fans for him to “perform” grief.
The criticism these guys got for not grieving in the way a lot of the public wanted them to was awful.
People were comparing their posts after he died and measuring them against each other and whose was the most meaningful.
If they weren’t publicly grieving properly people were saying they never cared about Liam.
It was really bizarre.
this makes me wanna cry
As someone who lost their mom suddenly this past year, I can not even fathom the idea of people telling me I’m grieving wrong or telling me how they think I should be acting or what I should be saying. I feel for all of them and navigating their own grief in such a public way.
😔 this breaks my heart.
**Just because someone doesn’t tell you something doesn’t mean they didn’t do it or feel it.**
This applies to celebrities, too, about their personal lives, current events and politics. Yes, your entitlement and cruel words hurts them. Yes, they are sensitive people like artists are. No, you should not need them to say something in order for you to decide how you feel about something. Think for yourself. Mind your own business and let people mind theirs.
Oh yeah, i certainly felt that. i remember when Keanu was constantly hammered about his reaction to River’s death back then. In fact, even now, so many years later… he is always grieving his best friend’s death but there’s a certain expectation of how he should present that grief to the tabloids… So i feel Harry’s situation here. Must be very difficult to deal with. ETA: It should NEVER be the place of said tabloids and gen pop to dictate how a celebrity grieves.